Written by Sallie Borrink.
Tamara Fisher, a gifted and talented specialist, describes her job in this way:
(I)t’s my goal (among others) to help them understand, accept, and learn how to manage the advantages and disadvantages that can come with their high intelligence and high creativity. We have conversations about effective ways to respond to (or not respond to) teasing, we discuss friendship issues and strategies for finding and making quality (vs. quantity) friends, we talk about what giftedness is (a learning difference) and what it is not (specialness), we celebrate challenge and the hard work it takes to learn when challenged, and we foster an attitude that it’s okay to be who you are… our world needs all sorts. Generally speaking, these conversations, over time, do help them to understand, accept, and manage the advantages and disadvantages that come with their giftedness.
Fisher recently shared her students’ perspectives on the downsides of being gifted. She then later asked them what they appreciated about being gifted. Here is a sampling of their responses as to the upside of being gifted:
“Having a great ability at something gives me the joy of immersing myself in working on that area.” Michelle, 7th grade
“Being gifted is great when the school meets me where I’m at academically. I love being challenged in my advanced classes.” Wendy, 7th grade
“I just learn differently, and I’m okay with that.” Cural, 5th grade
“I think I have found a lot of less-known things interesting, causing me to have a very diverse set of life experiences. Because of that, I have a very different thought process than most people.” Scribblenaut, 12th grade
“I sometimes enjoy feeling smarter than the others and I feel like all that I have worked for in the past has paid off. And I’m thankful that there is a class where I can (humbly) exercise my abilities and be surrounded by others who have the same talents, a class where I won’t feel different from other kids.” Olive, 9th grade
“I like that I can ‘see through’ the motives of the so-called cool crowd.” Puff the Magic Dragon, 5th grade
Helping students who learn differently to embrace and even enjoy their differences is a large part of helping them become successful students and, eventually, successful adults. Celebrating their strengths and individuality on a regular basis will contribute greatly to their own acceptance of their unique approach to life.
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